The one...

      Hundreds of religions around the world,  hundreds of sects in each religion, all speak of unity and becoming one... yet we are still divided.... but why?
We all live a big lie, we lie and believe our own lies...
      For centuries the human becoming has been living a lie of love, he thinks love will heal him... he seeks people's approval and acceptance, and this is the biggest lie. Do what you love and be who you are, people will love you, or not , this is their business, what concerns you is you... Not them. Once you believe in you and start loving you, you will start understanding yourself, and start loving people, for who they are not for who you want them to be. Loving people for what you want them to be or think they are is making expectations, expectations take you down, they do not raise you and elevate you. Believe in life and believe in experience. Telling from my own experiences  i can easily say, making or having expectations from people is the path of endless pain. People will only let you down, this is not a call for being negative, but a call for being safe. One cannot live without people and cannot live with them. Adam once said complaining...."I cannot live with her and i cannot live without her."

      People, are already too concerned with their own challenges, with their struggles to find their own identity, or to find their true selves. Once you start counting on people, you count on a person just as weak as you are if not weaker. And so, you lay your burdens on a friend and he does the same on another and the other does the same with another and it goes in a loopall the way until it comes back to you once again.... what goes around comes around. Hence the answer is within you and I, the answer is within us and the answer is understanding that we all share things in common but the one and most important thing is humanity, we share existence. The challenge is to be alive not only to live. Being alive starts with strive, a challenge to know and glow,rise high and above all expectations, to know ourselves, to know the one and only truth.

      Count on something constant, count on something strong, someone who eats to live, is not strong, count on that which owns unconditional strength, count on that which owns unconditional love, count on that which owns unconditional acceptance, find it and count on it. Do i not need a friend then in life? of course we all do, friends are their for support sometimes, and sometimes they aren't. Enjoy their support when you have it, but do not count on it, they will not always have your back. Listen to the wise man who once spoke to god and told him thankfully " oh truth, you have not left me a friend"... This was his final realization... A friend in need is a friend indeed, find him, hold on to him, treasure him, he is a gift... Life goes on, people change, some change to the better and some to the worse, not all change is bad, only that which is void of mistakes. Mistakes are important, out of which you learn the real lessons, only when you experience, experience is learning the lesson the practical way, belief is learning the lesson theoretically. To place all your faith in that which you have not experienced is hard, it requires strong faith, yet it is not void of pits and falls. You will fall one day, that is inevitable, and rise again, but that is a matter of choice.

      Those who experience rather than believe, take higher risks in life, go sometimes in dark roads and alleys of the existence, but nevertheless they must reach some realization at some point in their journey. Realization is not the end product though, it is followed either by denial or acceptance and submission, denial pulls you back to the starting point once again, you start believing in disbelieve, denying what you see and what you experience and what others believe in, it is the process of rejecting life itself. Acceptance on the other hand is a process of submission to the one and only truth , it breaks the endless loop and circle, it turns it into a spiral raising you high and elevating you. Only then will people realize that variety and multiplicity is not that much different than the fact no finger in our hands look like the other, yet all belong to us, and all are part of a whole. Variety in paths, in approaches, in solutions, in understanding, in faith and in belief, once perused to an end, will come to one fact and one truth, and will take you to the whole.... Only then will we all unite and become one.

Do you still ask why we are not one?